Nerve Pain Occurrences During Sexual Masturbation


*Note: if you are overly sensitive to discussions on intimacy issues, STOP reading the following article. *

For decades, I have had severe pain in my feet and headaches while my husband helps me masturbate. Thereby preventing an organism from occurring as we must stop the process. My husband and I are both obese. I have lost a hundred pounds in the last year and still have the problem. We cannot have intercourse because of our body masses.

I have spoken to my primary physician about this occurrence, and he had never heard of such a thing and thought I should talk to my therapist. I spoke to my psychiatrist regarding the matter, and she told me it could be a trauma reaction to my childhood pedophilic father’s sexual behavior toward my sister and me. So I talked about it in my trauma therapy sessions, still had the pain.

When I went to my Neurologist for Epilepsy and nerve pain in my neck and head after having a partial seizure and an auto-accident with a whiplash injury. We discussed my face feeling tingly and my lips going numb, and severe headaches, before and after seizures and at other times not related to the partial seizures. We also talked about pseudo seizures’ effects on the body.

I just happened to mention to her that I was having sharp pains in my feet when my husband and I masturbated. After some tests, she diagnosed me with “a nerve pain reaction.” They are in my feet, face, neck, and head, and are all related to each other as Nerve Pain responses to stimuli “it has a scientific medical name.” It was not tension headaches or psychiatric responses to trauma, after all. She put me on medications to try out. I am lucky because a couple of them working with each other worked out for me most of the time. I still get the headaches.

If you find that you are having nerve pain, speak to your doctors about it. Maybe you can get relief too. Take charge of your life and be an advocate for yourself. Although we are in our early 60s, I feel we are too young to give up on intimacy because of a health issue.

Thank you for reading my blog post. Kat Challis, July 03, 2022

Published by Kat Challis

Kathy Ann (Hughes) Challis Married in 1977 to Robert Challis-Oklahoma - still together Two daughters ages 44y and 40y and six beautiful grandchildren. Live in Texas. I love GOD and live life to its fullest. I am blessed beyond measure. I have family pets that give me a sense of devotion. Writing this blog has been an adventure of internal growth and I hope of interest to you.

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